10 Things Most People Take A Lifetime To Learn
Everyone at least once in their life needs to have a wake-up call. And, there is a no better time than the moment right now, to take a second and re-evaluate our own priorities and life.
Remember, better late than never. Read the 10 lessons below which often need a lifetime to learn and take advantage of them. It’s time to change your life today!
10 Lessons That Will Change Your Life
Lesson #1 – Show Gratitude
This might seem like a small thing, but it’s actually the key to happiness. People seem to always focus on the things they don’t have, instead of focusing on the things they have. If you are one of the many, then it’s time for a change.
With appreciation, you can live now at the current moment and be thankful for the seemingly ordinary, but incredibly useful things, such as water, a roof over your head, clothes, etc.
You should feel grateful for your family, food, job and shower in the morning. Yes, you should even be thankful for the shower, you have water to do that, it refreshes you, and it’s a fantastic way to start your day.
Lesson #2 – Actions and Not Words
People need a lifetime to understand that words don’t matter as much as the actions.
Maybe it’s more comfortable that way, but it’s certainly not right. We seem to believe in the lies of ourselves and other people. We allow others to mistreat us, and we pick the easier way and believe their words that it won’t happen again and that it was the last time.
But, the inevitable question comes: “How long are you planning to stay in this vicious circle?” Forever is not an option. You deserve better. A person who loves you will never put themselves in the position to lose you.
And if you are the one who is lying, ask yourself:”What is the purpose of all that?” What’s the use of lying to yourself? Yes, the words indeed offer a temporary comfort but there is nothing more to it.
Remember, actions are the important thing. Stop lying to yourself that you are going to change your life, quit your lousy job, get in shape, finish your education, pay more attention to your parents. Just stop with the words and take actions.
It’s that simple stop and do it. Your actions define you. Be true to yourself and your words. If you want to do something – do it, if you know someone lies or mistreats you- just leave. You deserve better.
Lesson #3 – Work Hard, But Not Too Hard
In order to feel alive, you need to work hard to make your dreams come true.
You should work hard, however not to that point where you neglect your family. As a matter of fact, one of the biggest regrets of people who die is that they didn’t spend enough time with their loved ones.
They didn’t visit their parents, went on that date with their wife or missed every soccer game of their child. Balance is everything. Make time for yourself, your family and friends.
Lesson #4 – Live In the Moment
Don’t stress about the future or think about the past, just live in the moment. The present is all that matters.
You can control the present. As a matter of fact, the only thing you can control is your time right now. Control what you do with it and how you act. Live today.
Lesson #5 – No Regrets
Remember not to obsess about past things. In that way, you will miss out the present and the moment right now. Remembering the past is like living it again. And you don’t need to go through things twice; the first time was more than enough.
Lesson #6 – Procrastination Can Make You a Slave
Bear in mind that when you procrastinate and waste your time, you are nothing more than a slave to the past.
Instead of looking backward, for a change look forwards. Take some action. Don’t let the laziness win, do what you need to and be proactive. Your life is now.
Lesson #7 – Take Each Failure As a Lesson
Some of the most valuable and certainly toughest lesions in life we learn thanks to our failures. Mistakes are an opportunity to learn. Learn to embrace your mistakes and never let them weigh you down.
Great things happen out of your comfort zone. Take a risk, even if you might fail. Accept the fact that you can make a mistake; you are a human being you can make a mistake. It’s okay; nobody is perfect.
But take mistakes as gifts. Why? Because your mistakes and failures make you face your fears and teach you that you can survive. You grow into a better person thanks to your failures.
Lesson #8 – Live for Yourself
When people are aware that their life is almost over, they experienced unbelievable clarity. Suddenly it becomes apparent to them that they have been chasing the wrong dreams.
Most people live their life according to the external pressure. Their goals are according to what they think they should do, what they were expected to do. Or even worse what someone else told them to do.
You only live once. Why would you live your life according to someone else’s expectations? Be brave and do what you want. Ask yourself what you want and go for it.
Lesson #9 – Be Kind
If your friend is sad, cheer him or her up. Smile at strangers, give money to the woman who is at a restaurant with her kids, but forgot her purse. Remember there are many opportunities to be kind, and there is no such thing as a small act of kindness.
For you, it might be small, but for others, it might be huge and of immense importance. By helping others, you will help yourself. Be the change you want to see in the world.
Lesson #10 – Make Priorities
You need to differentiate the things that matter to you and the things which you what to achieve. The things that matter are your kids, your family, your dog, love, health, etc.
Things you want to achieve are good looks, success and job promotion. Making the difference can assure a rich life. Change your life today. If not now, when?