Strong Women Would Rather Be Alone Than Waste Time With People Who Don’t Deserve Them
We need to be honest; relationships are enjoyable and beautiful. But, in some cases, dating is not that good, and we may only waste our time for nothing. Probably, most people have had many unsuccessful relationships that ended because of someone’s improper attitude.
Who needs that? No one!
No one needs anyone who is treating them with disrespect, or not returning calls. Also, a person who does not like you as you are, and is deceiving you anytime they got a chance, is not welcomed in your life.
Sometimes you talk to yourself, saying that he is so handsome, and there is no perfection in the world, so you may give him one more opportunity. You may believe he is going to change and become better. However, in most cases that is not happening.
Mr. Perfect is not real, and it is clear that we all have our own imperfections. But, disloyalty and deceiving are things that can be chosen or not. You should not and do not need anyone who makes that choice.
Experiences say that men who are handsome and attractive are assholes. So, the best way is to stay single while you find your good man. Also, being alone can be pretty enjoyable.
Why is it Great to Be Single?
You can do everything you like without getting in quarrels or being judged. You are able to spend a whole day beautifying yourself. During the weekends, you can choose to watch your favorite tv shows and movies without having to go out.
When you realize that trying to find the perfect guy is not that important, you will enjoy your time spent alone. And, do not think that alone and lonely are synonyms. Sometimes, people who are in bad relationships may feel lonely even if they are not alone. So, when you are single, you are free!
There is one more attractive man acting like a jerk. Who needs that? You do not want it, nor need it! Be yourself and do whatever comes to your mind, it is a great world with many opportunities.
Countless experiences say that guys are great at the beginning of the relationship, then they become idiots. And, when you gather all that experience, it will not be easy for any guy to deceive you.
This article is for every girl who had a bad experience in her life. Remember, you do not need that in your life, you do not deserve it. Each and every one of you out there is strong, free, and can be whatever you want to be. If you want to travel around the world, you can do it by yourself! You do not depend on some moron.
After being a complete jerk, he may give you that innocent look, but do not believe him! He is going to do that again. You should not be scared to be alone because being in a relationship does not mean happiness. Happiness is being free and secure.
Nonetheless, some of you may choose to be in a relationship. That is okay. But, you need to be very careful and remember that you are good on your own, and everyone seems perfect at the beginning.
Since time flies, you should spend it well. Enjoy your life on your own. Everyone wants to have good stuff in their life, things that they have wished for since they were little children. Make sure you get those things and do not have regrets about spending your precious life on worthless people.
Finally, the most important thing is to love yourself. Otherwise, no one else will. Appreciate yourself and do not let others treat you with disrespect. In order to survive in this cruel world, you need to be strong and powerful without needing anyone to help you.
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