Why Strong People Tend to Attract Difficult Romantic Partners?
It is never easy for strong people. They can try to solve every problem, tackle every obstacle, overcome every challenge, but sometimes the easiest things can be the most difficult to deal with.
We all hope that we will find that one true love and live a happy and fulfilling life. But, that is often not the case. Strong people are not exempt. Whenever they come home, they too have to deal with relationship troubles.
Yet these troubles can be incredibly difficult to deal with. Sometimes these relationships are the most difficult tests that even strong people won’t be able to handle. Especially if they have to deal with a manipulative, violent, and abusive partner.
Everyone can become a victim, even strong people. But, you are now probably wondering ‘’why’’. Why is it that strong people have to deal with such problems? Aren’t they smart enough to dodge them?
Why Strong People Attract Difficult Romantic Partners
The answer is, it is not their fault. No matter how smart they are or picky, they simply can’t control what they partner says. There are 3 types of relationships that strong people can be attracted to:
- the karmic relationship
- the soulmate
- the healing relationship
It is difficult for people to overcome what happened in the past. This type of relationship can be annoying and confusing at the same time. But, most importantly of all, it stops strong people from moving forward.
Yet, for some reason, people need this intense pull that can be both rewarding and therapeutic. This relationship allows them to release the old pain and find a way to cleanse along the way.
What to Do?
Embrace the relationship and try to move forward. At times, the most difficult relationships can help you heal. Learn from your mistakes.
Strong people have a few soulmates. But, maintaining a relationship such as this one, can be quite challenging. It is stressful, exhausting and yet, rewarding. The main goal of this relationship is soul growth.
It is the type of relationship that opens the path to self-discovery. They as partners may be romantically bound, but a soulmate relationship will probably not last forever. Yet, the effects of the relationship will still linger.
What to Do?
It is best that you go with the flow. Allow yourself to experience new things and see how life can be interesting once more. Concentrate on yourself and allow yourself to reach the goals you have previously set.
Strong people can heal others as well. They are the best shoulder to cry on and the ideal ear to listen. Which is why they always attract a partner who will need the same kind of attention. That partner will look for a shoulder to cry on and someone who will listen.
But, this partner will need constant healing. This can be exhausting. We suggest you stay away from such people. Take a step back and choose to hang out with someone who will help you grow. Don’t allow someone to pull you down.
What to Do?
If you are madly in love with someone who constantly needs you to listen to their problems, we suggest that you remove all the obstacles that affect your love.
Also, if you appear vulnerable to such a person, they might be able to help you out the same way you helped them.