Why We Should Stay Single Until We Meet the Right One
Who’s single? The thing is, no one should worry that they won’t find their match. Even if their past relationships were just not what they wanted.
We should all bear one thing in mind – no one is perfect, not the cover girl, not even the most gorgeous girl we know, not even our cousin or our mother.
So, yes nobody is perfect, but this does not necessarily mean that you need to settle just for anyone. Remember one thing; perfection has nothing to do with relationships and love. When it comes to love one thing is necessary, and that is to wait for the right one.
The point is not just to be with someone, but to make a union with your partner where both of you are better just by being with one another, by being a couple. And for this to happen, you need to meet the right one.
In life, every single person you meet has a reason for being part of your life. Some people serve as life lessons, and there are some that are present in order to make you stronger.
But still, there is that one person who is meant to be part of your life and fill the emptiness you always felt. But how can you meet the right one, if you are and you spend your all-time with the wrong one?
Just think about it. What’s the point in staying with someone that doesn’t fulfill your desires and needs in life? Why spend your time? You deserve the right one; you desire to love. That is why sometimes it is better to be single until you meet the right person.
Why? Read on to find out more about this and things will make sense.
Reasons to Stay Single Until You Find the Right One
#1 The Advantages of Being In the Right Relationship
When it comes to relationships, even in the right one, it’s not always rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes to be part of the proper relationship you need to acknowledge a couple of uncomfortable truths.
When you are in a relationship with someone who isn’t right for you, every sacrifice you need to make feels too much and is challenging.
But with the right person you would want to go through this, yes, you will know that it might be a challenge, but you will be with the person you love so that it won’t be that hard.
The most significant advantage is that you will leave your comfort zone, feel loved and grow as a person.
#2 The Right Person Will Accept Both Your Strengths and Weaknesses
Usually, most relationships end due to the unacceptance of one person’s shortcomings. Yes, the positive attributes might be enough to spark attraction, but not enough to override the weaknesses in the long run.
The truth is that everyone has flaws. The right person will accept all your weaknesses, and they will love you no matter what. And you will do the same thing for them.
Becoming a better person involves growth, and you will have that with the right one. Isn’t that amazing and worth the wait?
#3 The Right One Will Match Your Effort
The right person will enjoy every activity with you. You need to wait for someone who will do the dishes without complaining about it. Someone who will go shopping without complaining about how they don’t want to go.
Someone who will surprise you with flowers at work without you having to give them a hint that you want to have such a surprise.
#4 The Right Relationship Is More Likely to Last Forever
When it comes to a relationship, mutual chemistry goes with the longevity of the relationship.
Why is it like that? Because you don’t have to force compatibility. You should understand that you cannot force chemistry. If you try to do that it will be a joyless and exhausting endeavor.
And the final result will be heartbreak. Don’t force love.
#5 The Right Person Is Worth the Wait
The lucky ones who have met the right person will tell you the same thing – the right one just appeared. This usually happens when you are in that state of believing that you will never find someone worthy and come in peace with it.
And then the right one appears. It just happens. This person loves you without condition and accepts you for who you really are. And, you have to agree such a person is definitely worth the wait.
You should stay single until meeting someone who is worth the energy, effort, time, and wait. Don’t make a mistake and waste your time and years on someone who finds you needy or too emotional.
Don’t spend your time on people who behave as you are desperate for doing your best for the relationship to stay alive. Be alone until you meet someone who really deserves you, and feels fortunate to have you every single day.
Be with someone who is proud to have you, only around that kind of person you can be the best version of yourself.