Situations When We Have to Rely Only on Ourselves
When it comes to life, it is always the same case scenario. Regardless of what we do and who we are, we all go through hard times in life. Maybe it is losing a loved one, perhaps it is a disappointment, or maybe it is a bad and toxic relationship.
Perhaps it is making the wrong choice and having to deal with the consequences later on. Perhaps it is something that seems tiny at the start but builds up, or perhaps it is something that rocks your entire world.
Regardless of what it is, and what you are going through we must say that it is life. The truth is that everyone is struggling in their own way. Every single person on this planet fights a battle that maybe we will never know anything about.
This battle usually is harder than it seems. It is completely normal in life to fall apart as it is to piece yourself back together.
And here the most important lesson that you, as an individual, need to learn is that only you have the power to change where you are in the moment.
Remember that what you are going through won’t last forever. No matter how many times you fail, you must keep going. In life, it is essential to learn that you must be your own personal hero.
Yes, you and only you. You mustn’t let the world turn you into a bitter and hard person. Why? Because there is no use in that.
Don’t wait for a miracle, don’t wait for someone to come and save suddenly, don’t wait for the answer to your prayers. Why shouldn’t you wait? Because this will last forever.
You should bear in mind that ONLY YOU are in charge of the outcome.
Yes, it will get messy, yes, you might lose a few battles. However, you should remember that the moment you decide to give up is the moment that you will let chaos enter your life.
Try your best to be the one in control. It is easier to let everything fall apart, but you are stronger than that. You know better. Take control over your life.
There is one thing people don’t understand, and that is that we are actually way stronger than we believe. We are going to be OK. You have to believe in that firmly; you have to think that everything shall be fine.
If you don’t do it, no one else will do it for you. Do not waste any more time waiting for someone to save you. Save yourself.
So, it is your turn to be a hero, even if this means your own hero.