Being Single is Better Than Being With Someone Whose Soul Doesn’t Match
When it comes to relationships, it is quite reasonable to have different opinions about how one relationship should be, look or feel. And surely you know someone who is in and out of relationships just to be in one?
Or maybe you are that person? The truth is that most people want to be in a relationship. But you shouldn’t be in one at any cost. It is perfectly fine to be single and not be in a relationship.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with being single. As a matter of fact, waiting for someone right and being single can be one of the best things you can do for your own good and well-being.
You should bear in mind that when you are in a relationship with someone out of boredom and loneliness, you are not achieving anything, you are just wasting your time. Time which won’t come back.
You can spend that same time doing things that might inspire you and make you grow, things you love doing with people who make you the best version of yourself.
You can spend that time trying to find out what you like, spend quality time with your family, learn new things or merely pamper yourself.
We all want real love, but the reality is that real love doesn’t come often and indeed it doesn’t come easy. Can you recognize real love if you are jumping from one relationship into another?
You cannot convert a mediocre relationship into a close, soulmate bond.
It is difficult to find someone that is both intellectually and mentally compatible with you, and that simultaneously will share a deep love and passion. It is difficult, but it isn’t impossible.
Don’t waste your love, energy, and time on someone who won’t appreciate it, who will take you for granted, and who will never make your #1 priority.
It has happened to most of us, sometimes just the idea of being in a relationship and being loved can be so alluring and strong that it can happen to end up with someone that is not right for us.
But still, we decide to be in that relationship, simply because we love to be in a relationship.
It makes sense, right? Now that you realize that you need to stop for a moment and think. Reflect on your life and decisions. Try to understand that being single isn’t that bad, in fact; it can set you free.
You will have the time to do many things. You will have you, and sometimes that is all you actually need. Be in a relationship only when you feel your soul and theirs vibrate on the same level.
You should stay single until you find the one who can make you feel like finally, you are home and until you discover that their soul completely matches yours.
This is the type of love that is worth fighting and waiting for. If you are with the wrong one, you might miss the right one.
And never lose hope, he is out there, searching for you.