10 Signs We are on the Right Path in Life
Once we become adults, we feel as someone has thrown us outside in the world and now people expect something from us. Breaking out of the cocoon and leaving behind the old limiting beliefs can be uncomfortable and painful.
When we are about to change, discomfort takes place. It is very likely that during the process we will have to face unhappiness, but we need to understand that experiencing that is part of the process.
It is not you; you didn’t make a mistake. As a matter of fact, you should see the uncomfortable feelings as indicators that you are doing right and staying on the proper path of life.
Below you will see a couple of those uncomfortable feelings. If you can relate, then you need to relax since that means that you are on the right path in life.
10 Signs You Are on the Right Path
#1 You Need to Be Alone
During the process of recalibration, you might lose interest in your social life and find yourself drained by the issues of other people.
#2 You Decide to Downsize Your Group of Friends
This is a completely normal feeling. It doesn’t mean that you are becoming a mean or selfish person, it says that you are growing and becoming an adult.
You seem to stay away from people who are negative and hold you back. You don’t want to talk to them about their negativity, and so you avoid them.
#3 You Feel You’re Lost
You feel like you have no direction in life. You don’t feel as you are at a crossroads. Instead, you feel like you are lost in the desert. This is completely fine.
#4 You Feel As You Know Stuff You Don’t Want to Know
You seem to know how someone feels and what they really mean when they say something. You know details that you don’t need to know. Then irrational anxiety occurs due to the lack of good reasoning.
#5 You Want to Speak Up for Yourself
You no longer allow people to walk over you. You speak up for yourself; You come first.
#6 You Feel Responsible for Your Actions
Lately, you seem to understand that no one is responsible for your happiness and life other than yourself. Yes, admitting all your mistakes may be hard and terrifying, but at the same time, it can be liberating.
#7 You Don’t Know Who You Are
It is quite normal for your past beliefs of who you should be to change and to have some uncertainty when it comes to your evolving. You feel like you don’t have a clear definition of who you are and this confuses you.
But you should know that the true and real you will appear once you eliminate every single definition you have made for yourself. You need to see yourself as an essence that is in a constant state of becoming.
#8 You Experience Random Influxes of Irrational Sadness and Anger
These feelings intensify until you will no longer actually ignore them. These random emotions come out for recognition and as time goes by you will be conscious of their existence, and you would be able to control them.
#9 You Think That Your Thoughts Are Destroying You
If you see your thoughts as your enemies, then you should know that you are on the right path. This happens since your mind stretches and your spirit expands.
And when this happens it is scary for your mind, so what does your mind do? It makes scary thoughts in order to prevent you from making any change. This will go on until you understand what is going on.
#10 You Feel Your Dreams More Intensely Then Ever Before
Lately, you notice that your dream world becomes more and more real. You have vivid and intense dreams, and you remember every single detail. You need to understand that this is how your subconscious mind communicates with you.
Remember, you need to fight some bad days in order to earn the best days of your life.