3 Reasons Why People Could Instantly Dislike Empaths
We’ve all been in a situation where we can feel that someone simply doesn’t like us, right? Sure, most people have experienced that at least once, if not more in their life. We have all gone through it, being around a person who suddenly doesn’t like us.
And the fact is that we can feel it. But, someone not liking us is an entirely normal part of life. The truth is that we are all different, and whether you like it or not, there will always be some individuals you simply don’t get along with.
But, you should know that the sudden bizarre resentment might appear in people we have known for a while. And yes, you might not find the reason for this sudden change in their behavior towards you.
When it comes to empaths, one thing is certain they can sense this. This might bother the empaths since usually, they are trustworthy and likable people. The fact is that there will always be people who will do their best to take away your shine, smile, and light.
And there are 3 reasons why people do this. Those reasons are that your stillness is wrongly understood, you act as a mirror, and your vibration is simply too fast. Feeling confused? Don’t worry, read on to understand things better.
And maybe something will finally make sense.
3 Reasons Why People Instantly Dislike You
#1 Your Stillness Is Wrongly Understood
You should understand one thing, and that is to those people of insecure nature, your distant and quiet ways are seen as a form of a snub or disrespect.
Because at times, you might seem distant some people might find this to be superior behavior, wrongly assuming that you think you are above them.
Usually, when an Empath acts distant, it is due to the overload or overwhelming feeling. When having taken too much from their surroundings, Empaths need to recharge, and that is when they want to be invisible just to relax.
Moreover, when going towards a fatigue meltdown, the last thing they want is to deal with someone. You need to understand that at times even small talk is too much for Empaths. And that is why that is often understood as an insult or rejection.
Others find this and the Empath hard to understand because they simply don’t feel as the Empath feels. The sad truth is that the more insecure a person is, the more they will be offended by you being distant.
In case they see you as blowing cold and hot, the might think this to be disrespectful and reject you just to hurt you.
#2 The Mirror Effect
An Empath is able to pick up other people’s true personality traits, hidden behaviors, and emotions. And empaths can take these things and present them back out to the rightful owner.
Yes, the truth is that empaths are able to wear the truth of other people like the mask they really hide behind. Empaths sometimes do this, and they are not aware of it.
Anything hidden, like anger, insecurity, guilt or suppressed shame, gets bigger if left buried. In case someone has characteristics they simply don’t like, they will be easily reminded of them around an Empath.
This is why some people instantly dislike empaths. Empaths are reflecting the truth; these people try to hide and deny.
#3 Too Fast Vibration
If you are an Empath, you are probably very well aware that you cannot be around negative people. Same as you, some people cannot be around people with clean, positive and pure energy, energy usually empaths have.
When you continuously work on yourself, both physically and mentally, you make positive changes to your spirit, body, and mind and you become purer and cleaner.
This causes rejection from people who need to be around others with low-level vibrations. Furthermore, you might have noticed that some people like you better when you are in an emotionally low place.
But, when you are in a high vibrating positive space, these same friends don’t like you. That is when these people do their best just to bring you down and extinguish your happiness and inner-light.
Stay away from these people they are bad for you, and they are empty and sad people. People are able to sense change, no matter if is apparent or not. But not everyone is ready to increase their vibration.
Some people have more to overcome in order to reach your level, and some simply aren’t ready to move on. When they are not ready, they do everything to draw you back. No one needs that, if people don’t like you it is not because of you, it is because of them.
And remember one thing, is their loss.