Love Her, Don’t Destroy Her
Men, being with her means truly loving her. Otherwise, why waste time around her? However, we are all humans, and we have changeable emotions so that people may say they love someone but is it in the right way?
If a man treats his woman not well enough, he may change their relationship; he may turn a healthy relationship into a bad one.
Anyway, men, you should love her as she should be loved. You should appreciate her greatness because appreciation keeps your connection healthy and strong. Do you remember the first time you laid eyes on her? Wasn’t she everything that you have ever wanted?
This woman has something that you have never found in any other woman before. Maybe it is her appearance; maybe it is because she is funny and she is wild. There is just something special about her.
Her completeness made you fall for her. Loving her truly should make you keep her as she is pretty, natural, and complete. Although this woman is the one in control of her life, you should know that you as a person are important to her, you have a role.
The way you treat this woman is how she looks herself. Yes, you can make her happy, or you can make her miserable. This woman is like a flower in your hands; she wants and needs to be held with carefulness.
So, if you have true feelings for her, you should be careful not to hurt her. Once she was damaged, and she does not need to go through it again. She is not with you to be destroyed again.
Do you know that her decision to be with you means she is brave enough to overcome her fears as well as insecurities? This woman has decided to forget about her bad past and believe in love again. She believes in you. She has faith in you.
Respect her, and do not disappoint her. Even though you may think you know her well, you do not. You can hurt her if you believe you know her. She is not a book with an end; she is something that you will get to know each day.
Being with her does not mean that you should just be there physically, you need to be there emotionally as well. Your emotional absence would hurt her the most.
If you are with her all the time, you may not be with her truly, but if you are far away, you can still be there for her. Do you get it? You should provoke her emotions and thoughts, her being, and you should search her soul.
This woman does not need to be needed, but she needs to be wanted. Wanting to be with her only when you are alone is not going to do anything good to her. Your love is needed all the time, not just in “special” moments when you feel afraid or insecure.
Maybe you have had your own problems in the past that have destroyed you as well, but that should not be a burden to having a good relationship. You should not be with this woman only because you need a rebound or someone to fix you.
Fortunately, she will heal all of your wounds as time goes by. Being there for you and loving you will fix you. However, if you are with this woman only to fill those empty holes in your heart, and if she finds out, that will damage her.
You need to remember that she does not want or need to be healed. Although she has opened her heart to you about her past and her wounds, she did not tell you that in order to ask you to fix her. She did that because she wants you to know who she really is.
She wants to let you know that your love, patience, understanding, and attitude are what are important. You should never even think of treating her like a broken doll. She is a woman with scars, and you need to accept her like that, but make sure not to make any more wounds.
You are the person that should help her realize that everything she has gone through in her life was for a reason. Everything bad that has ever happened to her was to teach her how to appreciate the good things in her life, like you.
Loving this woman should be complete. You need to love her with all of her imperfections. She is just a human being who wants to be imperfect with you. Being her true self is what she really needs when she is with you.
When she looks in a mirror when she is alone, she wants to see the same person when she is with you. Being unprepared to accept her the way she is will hurt her.
You should know that whatever you decide to do for her, she will do the same for you, double. Give her the moon; she will give you the Universe. Give her a well; she will give you an ocean.
And, if you treat this woman the way she deserves, she will love you in ways you cannot even imagine. She will never forget about you if you give her sincere love.