Those Who are In an ”Almost Relationship” Deserve Far More Than That
If people had to choose one word of all the words in the world they hate the most, which word would it be? Well, there’s a lot of us who hate the word ‘’almost’’. It means ‘’not quite’’ or ‘’not really’’. But, why exactly that particular word?
Well, in every relationship, that word can apply to the things that are happening in partners’ lives. If you are a believer, you probably put your heart on the line and are strong enough to take risks. You believe in second chances and that people can change.
Unfortunately, not all people are as strong or as dedicated as you. They are afraid of commitment because their heart has been broken in the past. What they don’t understand is that being hurt in the past will make them stronger people.
That is why we don’t want to allow the word ‘’almost’’ to apply to every possible relationship. After all, there is a big difference between taking dangerous risks and not living with regret.
If you engage in a relationship with someone who is unsure, it will destroy you.
Such a relationship will make you believe that you are not good enough. In other words, that partner will make you believe that you are not good enough for them to stay committed to you and build a future together.
What hurts the most is when they act as if you are not worthy to be seen as their girlfriend. They say you are ok, but not quite what they are looking for. Don’t let yourself be a part of this pathetic mind game.
If someone wants to have a future with you, they will respect and love you. They will never look for pointless excuses that make no sense. They will never ignore your calls or texts. Instead, they will dedicate time and effort to making your relationship last.
Being in an ‘’almost relationship’’ shows how you truly feel about yourself, not how you feel about your partner. It’s not that you are a terrible person, it is that you are unsure of who you are and what you want to achieve in life.
In fact, you deserve much more than the people who always use the word ‘’almost’’ in a relationship. Remember, you deserve to be happy and loved. You are beautiful, and you should know it. So, make sure to find someone who will proudly say that you are their partner.
They will proudly hold your hand on public events and will take you on real dates. This is the kind of relationship you need. A relationship that is consistent, certain, and full of love and appreciation.
If you are not happy in your current relationship and you think that your partner will always find a way to ignore you, we suggest that you do something that makes you happy. Stop focusing on what your partner wants you to do and do what you want to do.
Be your own person and make decisions for yourself. This way you will find love and be happy.